Please stop lying to yourself

More times than not I hear how smart my kids are, how talented, how well they eat, listen, cooperate, how well they hold a conversation. The list can go on and on.

And although I'm grateful for the compliments what I'm actually hearing is:

"Why don't my kids behave like that?

Why don't they do what I ask of them...? "

and so, I have sat back and observed how much people are lying to themselves on the time investment they are actually putting into their children...

here is a reality check that you may not "want" to hear... but you NEED to hear:

Kids do what you do, not what you say!

you want them to follow your lead, but you aren't actually guiding them in the direction that you know is best because you haven't even started to do it for yourself.

• want less screen time? how much is your phone in your face?

• want them to eat more veggies? how often are they on your plate?

• want them to express themselves? how often do you step out there?

I can go on, but I think you get where I'm coming from.... Just know this comes from a place of love. I care about your results way more than i care about your feelings.

Which is why inside of Mindset Integration Academy we help all of our clients begin with their own self accountability and self-success. When you take care of you and begin to prioritize what's truly important in your life, you are able to also help guide those around you.